The First Congregational Church of Darien

United Church of Christ

A community of faith since 1737

Category Archives: Faith

Our Memorial Garden is located off the Morehouse Room.

Information about interment in our Memorial Garden will be posted here soon.  Contact the Church Office in the meantime.











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Holy Week (3)

TWO RIVAL COACHES, ONE FAITH — Special Turkey Bowl Huddle Event

In a world that seems to be making all of us rivals — we are delighted to announce a Darien FCA (Fellowship of Christian Athletes) event that is taking place next Monday, November 21. The week of Turkey Bowl, Darien and New Canaan will come together under ONE faith to show our community that even though we may compete, our faith ALWAYS brings us together. We pray this message can touch the world!

Please join us for a very special Turkey Bowl Huddle with special guests Darien Coach Rob Trifone and New Canaan Coach Lou Marinelli.
Come hear about friendship, respect, sportsmanship, and faith.

Monday, November 21, 7-8 PM
Darien United Methodist Church, 345 Middlesex Ave.

All high school students from both Darien & New Canaan welcome. Please invite friends. Alumni and parents welcome too.


On Sunday, Jan. 24 at 11:15 a.m. The First Congregational Church of Darien will host an open and frank discussion about the Islam faith and traditions.  All are welcome to attend.  The discussion will be held in Parish Hall, 14 Brookside Road, Darien.

“You can’t go a day without hearing about Islam,” says Gary Morello, Associate Minister at First Congregational Church. “So we’ve invited our Muslim friends to join us to answer questions and dialogue with us.” Organizers hope the panel will help the community understand when this religion began, what its core beliefs are, how the Sunni split happened, and much more.

First Congregational hopes the Darien community will come learn more about the Islam faith and how Islam connects to Christianity (hint:  Mary is a rock star in the Koran). Light refreshments and childcare will be provided.  To learn more, visit

Jon Bigelow, chair, Associate Minister Search Committee
For a church as for any institution, it is enlightening to step back and see how others view us. We had an opportunity to do just that during the recent search that led to calling Gary Morello as our Associate Minister.  I’ve borrowed this space, while Dale is in Costa Rica on the Habitat for Humanity work trip, to share some of what we heard.
To post the position in the UCC network, we crafted a 30-page profile of First Congregational Church: our demographics, theological leanings, worship, history, organization, finances, mission work, the challenges we see in our community and our aspirations for addressing them.  (A copy is available in the church office.)
As we interviewed candidates from around the country, we received feedback about what the Profile and our answers to their questions told them about our church.  What did they say?
They were often surprised that our church, in its ByLaws, commits 10% of all pledges to outreach, and also has a history of including a 10% mission component in capital campaigns.  They were further impressed at the breadth of our involvement in the community, for example that we serve up to 200 meals each month at the Norwalk Emergency Shelter and help keep the pantry filled on a weekly basis, and remarked on the amounts we have raised through the Darien House Tour and, before that, the Antiques Show.  Clearly this commitment of time and treasure to outreach in the community goes beyond that of many churches.
We were praised for our practice of regularly conducting mission trips for our youth.  We heard positive comments on our Come As You Are services to attract more worshippers and accommodate busy schedules, and on our commitment to music and initiatives such as Jazz Sunday.
More broadly, much time was spent discussing our concerns for the stresses of growing up in (or, for that matter, being an adult in) the high-achiever, high-expectation environment that is Darien.  Ministry here comes with special opportunities but also special challenges, and candidates were pleased to see the attention we pay to this issue.
Candidates noted our inclusive tone, and our ability to rebound from past difficulties within the congregation.  And hats off to our Communications Committee: We were complimented on our social media presence, incorporating Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn as well as our website.
In short, a key reason we attracted a strong pool of candidates (at a time when fewer divinity school graduates enter parish ministry) is because they saw in First Congregational Church of Darien a community of people working hard to make a difference.  There is more for us to accomplish, of course.  But-even as we begin 2016 with Gary on board, many new members, an energized youth program, an adult work trip underway and youth mission trips planned for summer, the Evans Center about to open, and a slate of special services and events in coming weeks-it is worth celebrating the progress we are making.

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17 people from our Church are leaving Saturday for Guanacaste, Costa Rica, where they will live and work building homes for local residents. We wish them “buen viaje” and Godspeed. 20160103_102306_opt

Be sure to watch this charming annual event at FCC – our Christmas Pageant!

FCCDarien Christmas Pagent 2014 from First Congregational Darien on Vimeo.


Christmas Eve Family Services
4:00 and 5:30 pm
Our family services are exuberant, lively, and have a family-friendly atmosphere. Our junior choir will sing at the 4 p.m. service.
10:00 pm – Service of Lessons and Carols
(Musical Prelude begins at 9:30 p.m.)
A classic, quiet, and contemplative Christmas Eve service accompanied by our Senior Choir