The First Congregational Church of Darien

United Church of Christ

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You celebrationsunday (1)are invited to a special Sunday service to celebrate a wonderful year for all our young people and our church community.  A traditional service with fun and flare is being planned by the Board of Christian Education to celebrate our children ages newborn through college.  Gary Morello will deliver the sermon and we’ll honor our Church School teachers, and recognize our graduating high school and college graduates.  An ice cream social for all will follow the service on the church lawn. The Youth Group will welcome back graduates at 12:00 p.m. with a BBQ outside the new Youth Room.  We have much to give thanks for and celebrate — we hope you’ll join us!

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A very good time was had by all today at the Fat Sunday Jazz Service. Here are some snippets of from the special service:

The service started with “Standing in the Need of Prayer”

“Standing in the Need of Prayer” – FCCDarien Celebrates Fat Sunday from First Congregational Darien on Vimeo.


Then we enjoyed “Just A Closer Walk With Thee” as our next hymn.

“Just a Closer Walk with Thee” at Fat Sunday Service (2/8/15) – First Congregational Church of Darien from First Congregational Darien on Vimeo.


The choir sang “I Want To Be Ready” at the Offertory

“I Want to Be Ready” sung by FCCDarien choir at Fat Sunday Jazz Service, 2/8/15 from First Congregational Darien on Vimeo.


And the service ended with a rousing “When the Saints Go Marching In” with parade from the Church School!

“When The Saints Go Marching In” closes out Fat Sunday Jazz Service (2/8/15) at FCC Darien from First Congregational Darien on Vimeo.

Special thanks to Chris Coogan (of Chris Coogan Music) on piano and his maestros of music: Richard Denton – trumpet, Jim Royle – drums, John Mobilio – bass.

One service only, at 10 am, followed by Mardi Gras celebration and “supper”. Don’t miss it!

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Jazz “Fat Sunday” Service
Sunday, February 8
10:00 a.m.
Mardi Gras “Supper”

Menu Compliments of Deacons & Women’s Association


“When the Saints Go Marching in”

“Standing the Need of Prayer”


Screen Shot 2014-09-11 at 7.56.53 AMWelcome Back Sunday isn’t a church calendar fixture year like Easter or Pentecost. But the Old Testament’s most compelling story is Israel’s search for their home, the place where God wanted them, having been liberated from slavery. Retelling that story is what the Passover seder is about. If you found you missed something indescribable over the summer, if something was not quite right, maybe you missed your spiritual home, our First Congregational Church.

This Sunday is our Welcome Back Sunday. We will share a Jazz Sunday with our own Max Pakhomov, John Stuart, and the Dixieland style band we welcomed a couple years ago. We will welcome eleven new members into our fellowship. An ice cream social with face painting will follow. We hope you’re making plans to be with us as we feel this energy surge among us anew.

Home is where, when you go there, they have to take you in. Mark Twain said that. So maybe it is fitting that my sermon theme on Sunday is authenticity. When people and places are real or genuine, we cannot always exactly put our finger on why. But our antennae are always out, searching and wondering, do they really mean it? Or are they just going through the motions?

So what does authenticity mean in a church? Will Willimon, of Duke University, shares this vignette. An irate father called him one day, exploding on the other end of the line. “I hold you personally responsible for this!” he shouted. He was angry because his graduate-school-bound daughter had decided to “throw it all away” in Haiti to do mission work with the Presbyterians.

“Isn’t that absurd?” screamed the father. “She has a B. S. degree from Duke and she is going to dig ditches in Haiti! I hold you personally responsible for this!” Willimon said, “Why me?” The father came back, “you ingratiated yourself and filled her up with all of this religion stuff.” Will didn’t back off an inch. He asked the father, “Sir, weren’t you the one who had her baptized?”

“Well…..well, yes.” “And didn’t you take her to Sunday School when she was a little girl?” “Yes.” “And didn’t you allow your daughter to go on youth mission trips back in high school days?” “Yes…but what does that have to do with anything.” “Sir, you are reason she is ‘throwing it all away.’ You introduced her to Jesus, not me.” “But,” said the father, “all we wanted was a Presbyterian.” “Well, sorry, sir, you messed up. You’ve gone and made her into a disciple.”

Since hearing that story, whenever I meet with the family before baptizing a child, I always tell the parents that by having their child baptized that if Jesus later wants or lays claim to her for any number of ministries, easy or hard, near or far, they must let her go. It’s a speak-now-or-forever-hold-your-peace moment. They generally swallow hard and nod yes. In Colorado, a new member family told me a story some years after they had joined that First Congregational.

They joined wanting to baptize a child. I gave my usual spiel about the completeness of God’s claim upon his baptized. In the parking lot, the wife said, “Wow. That was a little over the top, don’t you think? Pretty intense.” The husband answered, “If he doesn’t really believe it, or only half believes it, then how much do you think we are going to believe it?” I am ok with that.

See you Sunday! One service only at ten am!

We are excited to host our annual “Blessing of the Animals” on Sunday September 27th, during the 10:00 a.m. service.

Photos from 2014 here!


We are hoping to celebrate our service outside (weather permitting) on the church lawn, with pets in attendance!

Interim Youth Group Coordinator
As we search for an Associate Minister who will also be responsible for the youth program, FCC is searching for an interim coordinator for its youth group. To that end we are reaching out to see if anyone in the Congregation can suggest candidates, both from within the church and outside. The position is part-time and flexible, allowing for an individual to work at the church and from home for approximately 10 hours each week. The individual will work with the chair of Christian Education and a parent advisory team to organize and facilitate regular middle and high school youth group meetings, social events, and community service activities. Other responsibilities include:  creating and managing a youth group calendar;  being the point person with community organizations;  recruiting and collaborating with parent leaders to be event captains for service projects, meetings, and social outings;  sending regular communications to youth and parents—maintaining a database of youth names, e-mails, and contact information; and  creating bi-weekly e-mail blasts; and writing news pieces for the Church Flash and/or Parish Columns.
Candidates need to have strong organizational and communication skills. The position pays $25 per hour. Interested candidates should contact Karen Brennan, Chair of Christian Education, at or 203-219-0628.